Safety & Security Notes.

Safety & Security Notes: cares for the safety and security of your profile from being misused by the deceivers with the personal information provided by you. We wish to provide you the safe turf during your life partner search. This is why we have a very meticulous practice of screening every other profile we receive for irrelevant and or inappropriate content. We also have strict abuse prevention and reporting systems in place for those who sneak through our screening systems.

We abide by an old saying Mistrust the obvious and we wish all our members to take after the proverb during the partner search. In ensuring your safety and privacy, were limited to actions that are within our control. So we request you to abide by the following guidelines of Dos and Don’ts to stop your identity theft while on partner search.


1.    Remain completely anonymous until you fully trust a person who expressed interest in you.

2.   Observe for odd behavior or inconsistencies because genuine people will always respect your space and allow you to take your time in making a decision.

3.   Ask a friend or relative to read the emails you receive because as an unbiased observer, they can spot warning signs you missed.

4.  Watch out for people who ask unwanted questions or are vague about their answers stop communicating with anyone who pressurizes you for personal information like photo, mailing address, mobile no. etc., or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it.

5.   You can use the Photo Request feature on As offers free scanning and upload services to its members, there is no reason someone should not be able to provide you with a photo.

6.   View several images of someone in various styles casual, formal, indoor, and outdoor. If he/she gives excuses about why you cannot see a photo, consider that he/she has something to hide.

7.    Use a prepaid mobile phone number or use local telephone blocking techniques to prevent your phone number from appearing in Caller Id. Furnish your contact number only when you feel completely comfortable and have some information about the other person.

8.    If someone provides you with a phone number with a strange area code, check it out to make sure it's not a charged number before you make the call. Be cautious when it comes to taking an online relationship offline.

9.    If you decide to arrange a meeting, you always have the right to change your mind. It's possible that your decision to keep the relationship at the anonymous level is based on an insight that you cannot logically explain. Trust yourself.

10.    When you decide to meet face to face with someone for the first time, choose a public place such as a mall, restaurant, or cafe, where many people are around, and ensure your own transportation to and from.

11.    If you are meeting a person for the first time, take a friend or relative along with you. 

12.    In case you decide to meet him/her alone then leave the name, address, and telephone number of the person you are going to meet with your friend or family member.

13.    Ask many questions to him/her and watch for inconsistencies. This will help you detect liars and cons, and it will help you find out if you’re truly compatible.

14.    Pay attention to displays of anger, intense frustration, or attempts to pressure or control you. Acting in a resentful manner, making demeaning or disrespectful comments, or any physically inappropriate behavior are all warning signs.

15.    Beware of those who try to ask for money from you for whatever reason. A genuine person will not ask you for money in any circumstance. If someone asks you for money, use common sense and never give in to such requests.

16.    In case someone asks you for money, report the situation to us.


1.  Do not provide your personal contact information like name, email address, residential address, telephone number, place of work, or any other identifying information in your initial messages.

2.   Do not send your personal or contact information until you trust that person.

3.   Do not use signatures in your emails that include your contact details.

4.   Do not use your regular or official email id for communicating with a person you do not know well.

5.   Never arrange for your prospective match to pick you up or drop you at his / her place.

6.   Do not go to a secluded place or a movie alone at the first meeting.

7.  Do not ignore the following behavior especially if it is without an acceptable explanation: Provides inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, salary, profession, employment, etc.

8.    Do not trust him/her who fails to provide direct answers to direct questions.

9. He/she who never introduces you to friends, professional associates, or family members,

10.  Take your own time to decide on a trustworthy person and pay careful attention along the way.

11.  Always be careful about romance, and do not fall for the oldest con tricks of people who shower love and affection at the first instance and disappear later.

12. Do not become prematurely close to someone, even if that intimacy only occurs online.

Access a person with good judgment and instincts to get along. However, you may report abuse if you find a member's conduct is inappropriate with you through a mail explaining the full details of your case. is maintaining a healthy tie-up with the police department and provides support to the Police in cases where members report wrongdoing by any other member. We also share information with the Cyber Crime Investigation Cell to tackle fraudulent people. These initiatives of Mothi Matrimony ensure the safety and security of the portal. Above all, trust your instincts and take the marital prospect further with the right person. GOOD LUCK!